Tea, never argue, ignore, or explain 茶,从不争,不理,不解释

茶,从不争,不理,不解释

佛家以无欲无为,不求不争;饮茶者以茶养性,品茶静心。

不争,是一种淡泊泰然的态度;不理,是一种大智若愚的智慧;

不解释,是一种成熟稳重的选择。

很多时候,我们不争,不是因为无能,而是不想发生冲突。

因为不争,茶甘愿静隐于深山,吸收阳光雨露、天地精华,融入水中散发生命最本真的味道。

很多时候,我们不理,不是因为心虚,而是学会了让步。

很多时候,我们不解释,不是因为懦弱,而是让时间去证明。

茶从来不理睬流言蜚语,也从来不解释自己,更不会炫耀自己。

因为一切的真理,时间自会来证明。

活在这个世上,谁人背后没人说,做得再好,都有人指责,说得再真,都有人不满。

讨厌你的人,你再努力也无济于事;冷落你的人,你再掏心也无动于衷。

我们不能做到到人人喜欢,也不能让所有人满意,唯有以茶养性,静待时光评判。

贪得无厌的人我们满足不了,居心叵测的人我们难以接受。

有些人看透了,也就离开了,有些事看淡了,也就放下了。

因为懂得,茶便为自己而活。

不在乎别人的议论,不在意他人的眼光,静静做自己。

不拿妖艳媚俗吸引人,而以清新淡雅、无穷韵味留住人。

做人如茶,别太傻,别在讨厌你的人心中扎根,别在不懂你的人面前发芽。

与其把时间和精力花在不值得的人身上,还不如留给自己,野蛮生长。

品茶静心,流言蜚语,迟早会散。

你越是争辩,别人越嚣张,误会矛盾,终会化解,你越是解释,越剪不断理还乱。

我们选择善良,因为做人不能恶,恶必遭报应。

我们选择忍让,因为忍一忍风平浪静,让一让海阔天空。

我们选择宽容,因为宽容是美德,美德没有错。

我们选择真诚,因为违心奉承是应付,忠言逆耳是负责。

茶因宽容忍让,成就了自己;我因真诚善良,获得了幸福。

人活一世,如茶一般,不争、不理、不解释。

用不争彰显你的大度,用不理诠释你的从容,用不解释证明你的品行。

只要身正,就敢坦然面对,只要心正,就能一生无愧!

 

Tea, never argue, ignore, or explain
Buddhism does not want to do nothing, does not ask for nothing; tea drinkers use tea to nourish their sex and enjoy tea for meditation.
Not fighting is a kind of indifferent and calm attitude; not paying attention is a kind of wisdom that is as foolish as wisdom;
No explanation is a mature and stable choice.
In many cases, we don't fight, not because of incompetence, but because we don't want to conflict.
Because it is indisputable, tea is willing to hide in the mountains, absorb the sun and rain, the essence of heaven and earth, and blend into the water to exude the most authentic taste of life.
Many times, we ignore it, not because of a guilty conscience, but because we have learned to make concessions.
Many times, we do not explain, not because of cowardice, but let time prove it.
Tea never ignored gossip, never explained herself, and never showed off herself.
Because of all the truth, time will prove it.
In this world, no one says behind anyone, no matter how well they do it, there are people who blame them, and no matter how true they are, there are people who are dissatisfied.
Those who hate you, no matter how hard you work, will not help you; those who leave you in the cold, you will be indifferent no matter how hard you are.
We can't do it so that everyone likes it, and we can't satisfy everyone. We can only cultivate our sex with tea and wait for time to judge.
We can't satisfy the greedy people, and we can't accept the unpredictable people.
Some people have seen it through and left, and some things have been taken lightly, so they have to let go.
Because you know, tea lives for itself.
Don't care about others' opinions, don't care about others' perspectives, and be yourself quietly.
Not to attract people with flamboyant and kitsch, but to retain people with fresh and elegant, endless charm.
Being a human being is like tea, don't be too stupid, don't take root in the hearts of people who hate you, don't sprout in front of people who don't understand you.
Instead of spending time and energy on people who are not worthy, it is better to leave it to yourself and grow wild.
Tea meditation, gossip, sooner or later will dissipate.
The more you argue, the more arrogant others will misunderstand the contradiction, and it will eventually be resolved. The more you explain, the more you will continue to clarify.
We choose goodness, because we can't be evil, and evil will be met with retribution.
We choose to be forbearance, because forbearance is to calm the wind and the waves, and to let the sea and the sky broaden.
We choose tolerance, because tolerance is a virtue, and virtue is not wrong.
We choose to be sincere, because flattery is to deal with, and loyalty is responsible.
Cha has achieved himself because of tolerance and concession; I have achieved happiness because of my sincerity and kindness.
A person lives a lifetime, like tea, without contention, ignorance, or explanation.
Use no contention to show your generosity, use no care to interpret your calmness, and use no explanation to prove your character.
As long as the body is upright, you dare to face it calmly, as long as your heart is upright, you can live a clear life!

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